Late reply...
Well...
After perusing of all replies of Baasks in respect of the topic as mentioned above, it can clearly be concluded that none except the starter understood the true import and meaning of the topic itself. The question was and is simple whether a girl is entitled, can be given, or has the right to decide about her career and marriage but all replies are just brushing aside the essence /pith and looking again and again toward form. There is no such question asked to be replied or answered with consequential ramifications of that action of decision....
Absolutely it is accepted that girls or women must be given and they have this basic, innate and birth right to chose what they want to do (bad or good no matter),why should not we talk about virtue and vice in cases of decision-making and bad consequences of that decisions of boys or men. Women or girls are not another creature of this world why we are so narrow-minded and skewed to not accept the part of humankind. We talk about Islam and its basic injunctions/principles; in this regard, all are just wasting time to conquer this universe and making hurdles for a lasting peaceful world of humanity!
The main theme or factor of the points as replied above are just making ourselves more conservative and follower of stereotyped customs of no use. Where is Baluch cultural values? I never saw! Why we are just talking about individual points of agenda? Ponder over it! Where and in which books or convention of Baluch it is written that career and marriage both are subjects to be handled and decided by parents? All are just rubbish and rubbish only!
We all think that we are mature but not knowing what maturity is.
Girls are free to choose any thing whether bad or good no matter it is up to them to decide and face and bear the brunt why men or boys are chasing, rebuking and killing them. When a girl is doing well that is good for no one, when she does badly that is called Honor of men or boys (brothers, father etc)?
As any action, which is not good for girls to do that act or be victim of perversion and lust, also it should not be a good act for boys/men to do so. Women or girls are not just toys or lollipop to play or taste it, they are human being as like all...Emotions and self are the same things of one coin. We must say mind that is powerful tool of the world to rule or be ruled. We should use our minds and direct experiences rather illogical, irrational and unrealistic point of views. if there are problems that working-milieu is not fine or there are teasing/disturbing cases this is not the subject of men to decide , they(women/girls) have the right and ability to decide that it is good/right for them or not and also as like working they have to decide where to stay or pass their lives at home(whether sweet or not) or outside, BUT the positive and acceptable cultural values(if any left for any Baluch individual) and ethics must be followed because a system will never proceed without following of human being civilized and ethical norms and values(no value of Baluch existed anymore)..Who is here to tell me which one is a principle of Baluch culture or custom and who is the founder of that value or in which time that value developed and accepted as a custom? We talk about our culture or Islamic Culture, which culture, that culture which made you more backward and you are clinging with a sticky gum but you do not know that it is gum pasted with or you are sticker with it?
Why we have biased and unknown divine reasons to dubbed the women nonsense as Article .17 of the Law of Evidence of Pakistan (Qanun-e-Shahadat order 1984) provides and also one fellow within us say them “naqesulhaqal”, what a nonsense guy you are...Evidence means to say the very fact or incident which you saw, heard, perceived and felt earlier, there is no need of any intellect or rationality????
Lastly ,as regard of this topic and corollary of/to replies , I categorically and with out any grudge with any one state that we have to change our mindset and approach of minds that women/girls are our own entities and self and women/girls have to accept us that we are also the same. The problem is with looking of issue and solution in individual and personal plus illogical perspective without considering the settled universal positive and productive principles and norms, may some one are not conversant with them as like frog of well!!!
May Nature always bless us all to show path of intellect, vision, logic and rationality for development and amelioration of our Nation and civilized humans being.
Women will be right and good if men are good and right; men will be good and right if women are good and right!
