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Title: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: baloch_friend on May 26, 2006, 05:18:51 PM
HELLO BAASKS
   Every 1 who use net must have NET FRIENDS  or CHAT FELLOWS .
what you people think that is this friendship as valuable or trustworthy as real life friendship or not .
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Zahida Raees Raji on May 26, 2006, 11:09:24 PM
Salam braat,

you have started very nice topic specialy for whom their life is stuck with net :)
I'll surely come up with my own experience but at the moment I am stuck with official tasks so catch u soon.

in the meantime take care

With Regards

Your sis



Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Perozai R!nd on May 27, 2006, 11:26:12 AM
Nice Disscussion
Well According To My Opinion Trustworthy is Much More Valuable Bcoz When U trust On SomeOne Its a Big Thing .Chating With SomeOne On Whome U can Trust Is More Intresting & I think You Can Share EveryThing With Them Frankly Than Chating With SomeOne Strange.
Trustworthy Starts from Friendship.If We Chat With SomeOne For The First Time We Just give it The Name friendship But When We Become Close To them ,Then Automatically The Trusting On Them Starts.I Dont Know Wheather I am Right Or Not.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Digital Walk on June 01, 2006, 03:04:01 PM
Mostly net friendship is not much reliable or trustworthy. But I have seen people who have found really keen and nice friends through internet.

Ofcourse its not a MUST!

In my opinion, its not(reliable or trustworthy), because we are differnciating in between the two as "Real Life friend" and "Internet Friend". DOn't you guys think that this makes sense?

The "net friend" you are attached with might be anyone and there are certain things you cant figure out compared to a friend you see, share and shake hands every day, like his character, mind-set, behaviors etc.

Its really important that the person you are talking to matches the crieterian you hold in your mind for a good AND RELIABLE friend. because without it its impossible to make someone a "friend".

Suppose you go into a chat room.There u see someone who has an ID that attracts you and at the end you come to know that u have been talking to a fraud or a negative person.This might shock you.

I'll be happy to hear you comments on my comments.
See you,
JQ



 



Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Ahmed on June 06, 2006, 09:30:52 PM

VERY  GOOD TOPIC, WORTH DISCUSSING - I HOPE ALL THE MEMBERS SHARE THEIR VIEWS..

I have been using the internet since early 98.. And I have come a long way. Speaking of chatting and friends on the internet - there have been highs and lows. Currently I must say Im in my lowest - completely cutoff myself from chatting (except for having a small chat with Nohani on Gmail side chat, that too once maybe in a couple of weeks). I also had a break for chatting for last three years of my university - the internet served that time as my primary source of techical and study material and that was the time I fell in love with Google. Well with this small background information, I would like to share my ideas on the issue of internet friendships.

The first thing that comes to my mind is UNDERSTANDING. And honestly, from my experience, it (understanding) is very difficult to achieve while chatting on the internet. I think understanding is the key to any friendship. A lot of misunderstanding happens, just because you cant see the other person. The person on the other side maybe in a bad mood, sleepy, happy, and what not, theres no way you can know it. The true understanding happens when you see the other person - through his/her facial expressions, through his/her eyes, through his/her reactions. And the conversation proceeds accordingly..
I dont know if you got my point - I will simply put it like this: For a serious friendship, you need to be physically present.

I cant believe what all other people have described me on the internet - simple, complex, intelligent, foolish, smart, dull, religious, non-religious (you can also conclude this link (http://baask.com/diwan/index.php?topic=403.msg7090#msg7090)), modern, backward looking, all-the-same - never changing, completely changed - not the same person I met online, blah, blah...
Do I need to give more examples to prove that theres a lot of misunderstanding on the internet? The chatting world is a different world, and the real world is something different. Never make the mistake of considering them the same.

So Am I asking you to stop online friendships? Stop chatting?? The answer is NO. Online friendships brings out the second person in you, just go ahead and chat your heart out if you got the time. BUT keep your internet world and the real world seperate. Period.

Ahh, I wrote a lot.. I would like to know what everyone thinks. Especially I would like to tag Raji, Gwaduri, Nohani (I think he agrees with me), Sabit (Rindbaba), and DesertRose (If she has got the time). I know you guys have been online a lot and your opinion matters..

HAVE A NICE DAY

Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Digital Walk on June 07, 2006, 08:42:06 AM
Hi. Again!!
I couldn't keep myself from writing once more on the topic.
I appriciate Mr. Ahmed for his thoughts.

See, when u meet people, u actually read/note/judge every thing about them like habits,mentality, their behavior in different situations,their dealing, attitude and/or interaction with other people and lots of other  things i might be missing.
if you have met a person and then you continue your interaction with eachother through internet still that is not encouraged but its ok that you have been friends for a long time and now he/she has gone to a distant location and found internet to be the cheapest source of communication, here we can justify chatting on the internet.
Feelings play an imprtant in our lives.
Through inernet if a smiling smiley is sent, doesn't bear that effect on one which a living "LIVE" persons' smile bears.
Last word:There is a GREAT DIFFERENCE between the two,The  real life friendship and net friendship.

Thanking you,
JQ
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: بلوچ on July 05, 2006, 03:16:18 PM
Net is a virtual platform to communicate with known and strangers.
Now it’s up to the user for what purpose he/she is using it.

In some extents I agreed to Mr. Ahmed Mehboob's statement but not hindered percent.

If Net relation is just for fun then it is hundred percent different then real life relations.

But if one is closed to you as your real life friend means you both do share your thoughts, ideas, problems and their solutions then you can also consider him/her as a real life friend.

Mind you one cannot continue false talking for a long time period about his/her personal and social life so I think if you are satisfied with someone's approaches then personality does not make a big difference for you.

If you say all net friends are non-reliable then it’s depends on what kind of expectations you have for net friends.

Sometime someone’s judgment on net will be better then real life judgment but sometime it happen vise versa.
 
 
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Zahida Raees Raji on July 14, 2006, 04:52:10 PM

 salam-o-drout


Although topic isn't new but experience may change once opinion.
When Ahmed invited us to share our view point under this thread, I have threw a phrase "Kour-e-waab" on screen shot and I think that was the best definition of Net & its Dream World. :)

As for as my own experience is concerned it was and it is very good indeed because I entered in this dream world to achive my target which was/is learning, learning and learning and fortunately I became very successful. :)

Over net you can just focus on once writing and writing could express once nature, behavior, mentality and approaches so it totally depends on your own senses how much could you judge someone.


 shome_baaz_minnatvaran
 baloch-raaj-e-heyr-loutuk


 
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Hafeez_88 on August 02, 2006, 07:52:16 PM
SALAM..
  
   NICE AND COOL TOPIC U HAVE CHOOSED MAN BUT U KNOW IF U DONT SEE ANY1 U CANT BIEKEVE ANY 1 THTS MY RULE BUT BLIND FAITH IS SOMETHING THERE ALSO DEAR THTS A GUD THIG TO BIELEVE BUT UR BEING DIECEVED THN U CANT BIELEVE ANY1 I THINK MAKING FREIND ON NET IS GUD U TALK 2 THM AND THN UR CONVERSATION IMPROVES THTS A GUD THING MAN
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Alhaan on August 21, 2006, 08:09:41 PM
i dont think that net friendship is good.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Perozai R!nd on August 21, 2006, 10:28:37 PM
i dont think that net friendship is good.

I Dont Agree With You Alhaan.
Why Net Friendship Is Not Good???

mention Ur Reason If U Have?????????
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Sazeen Baloch on September 18, 2006, 12:41:18 AM
i m not going to agree wth u becoz in this world everybody decieve and break trust about net friend whom we dont meet just wth him or her how can we trust may she or he lie in this world everyone s selfish and think abt just herself or himself my trust broken a person whom i know since 10 years i dont believe people just chat for enjoyment and timepass also sharing thoughts
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Perozai R!nd on September 18, 2006, 12:44:04 PM
everyone s selfish and think abt just herself or himself  

I Am Not Agree With Ur This Point Sazeen.There Are Not Every Person Selfish In This World.There Are Also good people Still Remaining But U Can Say They Are Much Less Now As Compared To Past.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Alhaan on September 19, 2006, 10:54:01 PM
I m agree with u Sazeen well yes in net may b u talk with people its good but i think we cant trust them.and bro Fahad if u chate with someone whom u dont know u how can u trust him?.In many cases i see in chate room boy make them girl and girl make them boy.i never trust these kind of friendship. 
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Sazeen Baloch on September 20, 2006, 01:21:32 AM
mr fahad i dont thnk abt u but my experienced say tht we cant trust anybody n this world even whom we know net friendship a boy make himself a girl thn how we trust may b i sometime lie be straight forward expect the truth and think agin
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Perozai R!nd on September 20, 2006, 09:10:53 PM
mr fahad i dont thnk abt u but my experienced say tht we cant trust anybody n this world even whom we know net friendship a boy make himself a girl thn how we trust may b i sometime lie be straight forward expect the truth and think agin

Sis Sazeen.
You Are Right.Its To Difficult To Trust On Net friendship But I Dont Think So Keh Duniya Mein Sabghi Insan Relyable nahee HoN.
well Aapki Baat 100% Sahee Hey Behen Jee.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Sazeen Baloch on September 21, 2006, 03:45:30 PM
fahad hum s society me rehte jahan bhut kuch hota aur bhut kuch karna padta! I alwayz chat for time pass wen i getting bor i chat wth decent persons!! i m chatting since 4years but i didnot tel my real name to anybody!! i dont say its harm but there s some rules in chatting and making ffriendz
rules s that i never cross my limit and never give any chance to him or her to cross their limits aur some ignorant ppl come to find life partner in net i thnk they are mentally retarded
 E:D3
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Perozai R!nd on September 23, 2006, 12:26:30 PM
fahad hum s society me rehte jahan bhut kuch hota aur bhut kuch karna padta! I alwayz chat for time pass wen i getting bor i chat wth decent persons!! i m chatting since 4years but i didnot tel my real name to anybody!! i dont say its harm but there s some rules in chatting and making ffriendz
rules s that i never cross my limit and never give any chance to him or her to cross their limits aur some ignorant ppl come to find life partner in net i thnk they are mentally retarded
 E:D3

Jee Bilkul Sahee Farmaya Aapne Gohaar Sazeen.Hum LogoN Ko Apna Culture Nahee Bhoolna Chaahye Jahan Kaheen Bhi Rahein.Sazeen Jab Hum Khud Kisi Se Wafa Nahee karte To DusrOn Se Wafa Ki Khwaish Kaisi.Haan I Hope U Got My Point.
Mere Kehne Ka matlab yahee Hey Keh Hum Jab Kisi Se Chat Karte Waqt Khud Sach Kehne Se katrate Hein To Hum DusrOn Se Sach Ki Kiya Omeed Kar Sakte Hein.
Aapne Khud Abhi Es post Se Pehle Kaha Keh I Never gave My Real Name Coz U Cant trust On That Person With Whome U Chat.

Es Ka Matlab Yahee Hey Hum DusrOn Se Sach baat Na Karein To Koi baat Nahee Hogi Lakin jab Dusra Koi Hum Se Sach Baat Na Kare To Voh Acha Insaan Nahee Aur Voh Relyable Nahee.

I Know Keh Internet Mein 99 % Log Ghalat Hosakte Hein Lakin 1 % To Ache Log bhi Nikal Sakte Hein.Well Aap Maanein Ya na Maanein This Is My Firm Belief And Experience.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Sheh Mureed on October 11, 2006, 01:04:45 PM
very good topic i think net friendship is nt that much good like real friendship but i don,t mean to say that is not good.with a net friend u can share ur everything may b not with other friend, because u think that will b a cause of loss or bothered for u.but a net friend can,t help u that much or physically but a friend 2 whom u personally u meet.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Dua Baluch on October 23, 2006, 02:19:33 PM
Net Friendship!!!! a very common word we hear daily!!! for me Net Friendship is only "decieve"....we cant trust any body here....some time we think same as we think about our ownselves but thats our foolishness...
we even cant realize how selfish ppl are today they just want to utilize each and every thing...
I personally feel that never never make friends on net....I have many examples to see...thats y i just say that if we really want to kill our time then we should do other activities on net like joing these type os forums...search for gud things and many others....
Many foolish gals have got experienced wid this net...by trusting others.
by the way this word friendship is being used in a rong sense these days..first of all guys offer gals for friendship then they go a head and  name it as LOVE and when a time comes for dicision they simply tell thier truth that ......
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Digital Walk on October 24, 2006, 01:28:44 AM
Hope and wish everyone's life is full of fun...

As we all talked a lot same thing in different ways regarding Net Friendship and i myself went against the idea. At this point I have just started realizing that if net friendship is so bad, still we all baasks are connected in a really buitiful manner and everyone knows how much respect we bear in our hearts for eachother. Now my question would be, "How you justify net chatting and forum websitses such as Baask.com?"

Please think on this topic.
I am eagerly waiting for your sincere responses.
Shomay mennat waar,
Shomay wati,
JQ
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Mehhlab Baloch on October 24, 2006, 02:19:31 PM
Hello everyone....
i just have been reading ur comments on Net Friendship...i didnt participate becausei had not experienced this thing so far...but i just want to ask u one thing...How do u take this word FRIENDSHIP?... well i guess in this afratafri and rush if u find a little happiness its a blessing...whether provided u on net or outside...dont let it go...hum jubke apne suche doston se jin k sath shayed ek umar guzar chuke hain can not expect to net pe koi hamare liye kiya kar sakta hay ek khushi provide karne k elawa...or kisi ko kiya chahyeye...i guess Net friendship is not bad if v take it positive...when i enter into the diwan of baask believe it or not i found it a FAMILY where and i found them all as if they have met each other seen eachother and have been with eachother for years...so how do u feel this kind of frienship which provides u company while is dunya ki bheer main ap apne ap se be thak jatey ho...well i guess to choose the best is just upon us...khushian samaithna bura nae hota...buri ya achi hamari soch hoti hay... v all are mature enough to understand someone even with his or her..."gufftaar" (they way of talking and discussing anything)
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Dua Baluch on October 24, 2006, 07:01:49 PM
hi again!!!1
as I said b4 that we always think for other what ever we are by our ownselves. If we are gud then we think that pthers are gu ..if we arent then we think others....
if we ourselves use net as a gud purposes then we never decieve others... and if we are really mature and we take net just as a fun then its ok but if we are not as much mature as we think about ourselves and .....then result would b infront of us.
No doubt that BAASK MEMEBERS bears a great respect for each others and it should be too....and I have mentioned it that like BAASK FORUM we can spend our time and learn things a lot.....
and if we talk about fun and happiness to ye to hume net friends banae k ilawa b hasil hosakte hain...
ek sher yaha kehti chaloon
TUM TO TAKALUF KO B IKHLAAS SAMAJHTE HO FARAZ
DOST HOTA NAHI HER HAATH MILANE WALA!!!!!
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Perozai R!nd on November 03, 2006, 08:39:47 PM
Tell Me If We All Are Here In Baask As a Family And Can Trust On Each Other In SomeHow But If We Start Chating With Each Other ,It Means It Becomes Cause Of Decieve??Are U People Wanna Saying So???
Kiya Hum Baaskani Members Par Barosa Nahi Kar Sakte??? Duniya Mein To Hum Jaise Hee INSAAN Hein Jo Net Use Kar Rahe Hein...Agar Hum Forums Mein Kisi Se Baat Cheet Karte Hein To Its Mean We Are relyable And If We Chat On Msn Or on Yahoo, Its Means Hum Par Barosa Kiya Nahi Jasakta...

Well Ab Personly Mera Kaha Yahee Hoga Keh Barosa Nahi Karna Chaye Net Friendz Par...Well be Better for everyOne...
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: saadal on August 23, 2007, 01:14:49 AM
nice topic but very difficult to trust any one , whom u dont know . as my very short experience in net, but im cent percent sure that its very difficult to trust someone and if u trust some one then u cant think about the chet from that person. here in net i cant think that its based on truth, if in any case if there is any one who is right then its difficult to search out out him or her from that BULBULAYA.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: BiRousK on August 25, 2007, 08:41:57 PM
Since the begining of this very world there has always been an extreme controversy on the terminology "Friendship". Ladies and gentlemen apparently it might seem a word or a term consisting of 10 alphabets , but it is more than what it looks like as in the meaning and defination. Now not wasting most of ur precious time i would like to come to the topic commenced by our bro  which is worth appreciative , i commend him !!!
My dear fellows Friendship is friendship whether it is net friendship or not , now the question arises here is of "trust" . Let me tell u that in this era u cant believe someone , then trusting is a second opinion !! Philosophers only didnt say this for the sake of fun that if u have three real friends than u r the happiest among the human beings and to have more than three friends is impossible . When u discover yourself in others u would definitely start liking him/her . It is a complicated game in the very business . Most of u r right as u people are experienced and have learned from the past and made a conclusion to an inexplicable term friendship.
Now as  Ahmed said that physical appearance is necessary for friendship , i negate u , ur excellency ! sorry for barging in , we are not supposed to make friends with bodies on the contrary it is character which attracts most of the people , now keeping in mind the Net Friendship in the very recent years , it is completely a baloney devoid of trust and even chatting !!! Sazeen was to the core right that even a ten year old friend cant be trusted , but let me add something that to trust someone it might take a single day and sometimes years are not enough !! and this is a fact
As our elder sister told us the phone call story . i am in complete accord with her as me myself know  numerous fellows who are indulged in such type of shit !! . . Some of the examples and experiences do show us the right path . I have seen a number of ups and downs in my life regarding friendship , and to tell u the truth it really hurts from the very pacemaker where the heart beats when u break up !!!
I would not take much of ur time and i have tried my utmost to precise it as such a topic has no ends, so to cut the long story short Net friendship is not trustworthy yet all fives are not equal.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Zubair A.Latif Baloch on April 09, 2008, 01:29:56 PM
Hi!

A very gud n nice topic u hav chosen!

Well, mostly people use 2 make net friendz 4 juss tym pass. Most ov dem aren't as much sincere n loyal vid their net friends as 2 b. but it doesn't mean dat its a wrong task! many people hav got such friendz 4m da net which r very close now vid each other n use 2 b best friendz lyk in da real lyf.

So, i think net friendship iz gud but not lyk TRUSTWORTHY!

I donno veder em rite or not but its all bout which i think!

Thanksssss!
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: muradani_roch on November 24, 2008, 03:04:26 AM
If Net relation is just for fun then it is hundred percent different then real life relations.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: MiRHAaN on November 25, 2008, 06:41:47 PM
Net Friendship Only For Fun.
Agan Kasie Dooste DOmbayent Dara Genditeye.
Hechkas Etemade Laeq Nahent Ta Cham Magenditey. Zamanag Mardoma Baaz Chiz Yaad Daat Va Manaa Hishi Yaad Dateye Ke Hich Kas Immortal Societya Ahi Nahent Ke Peyesh Darit. Har Kas Ahi Donbalent Ke Nahent.
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Rinde jinek on February 04, 2009, 10:47:53 PM
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings


 You love and love you
 Suddenly Ijdonk person plus Afiktonk

 What are you doing?


 Gives them a lot of your time. Of your time. Of your effort. Of Hasaharak
 And only to hear them speak about their problems
 While you are listening, but without focus

 What are you doing?
 Ties extend to months, perhaps years
 Suddenly turn into a cold .. Ml ice ....

 And then leave ......................

 What does that mean?

 Is there really a true friendship through the net?

 Or is just Tadhaat time and the illusion of that dream become a reality?

 Relations from the perspectives of the net drop in the determination of the end
 We have passed this stage identified the people and the retaliation in my heart
 In the end, relocated ..
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: DesertRose on April 09, 2009, 05:00:48 PM

VERY  GOOD TOPIC, WORTH DISCUSSING - I HOPE ALL THE MEMBERS SHARE THEIR VIEWS..
Ahh, I wrote a lot.. I would like to know what everyone thinks. Especially I would like to tag Raji, Gwaduri, Nohani (I think he agrees with me), Sabit (Rindbaba), and DesertRose (If she has got the time). I know you guys have been online a lot and your opinion matters..

HAVE A NICE DAY




Ahmed you bring me to the old times here.  Well all I wish to comment is that when people make internet friends or whatever name they call it.  Use your judgement and be sensible whether the person on the other side is genuine.  It takes time to know one even in the real world outside the web world. 

Apart from Ahmed I have another friend who also met his wife on the web and he too has a baby boy :)

Have fun but do take care...........  :)
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: Zahida Raees Raji on April 10, 2009, 12:55:00 PM

VERY  GOOD TOPIC, WORTH DISCUSSING - I HOPE ALL THE MEMBERS SHARE THEIR VIEWS..
Ahh, I wrote a lot.. I would like to know what everyone thinks. Especially I would like to tag Raji, Gwaduri, Nohani (I think he agrees with me), Sabit (Rindbaba), and DesertRose (If she has got the time). I know you guys have been online a lot and your opinion matters..

HAVE A NICE DAY




Ahmed you bring me to the old times here.  Well all I wish to comment is that when people make internet friends or whatever name they call it.  Use your judgement and be sensible whether the person on the other side is genuine.  It takes time to know one even in the real world outside the web world. 
You are absolutly right my dear :)


Apart from Ahmed I have another friend who also met his wife on the web and he too has a baby boy :)

I want to update you my sweet sis that now that friend got a baby girl too :)

Love u
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: DesertRose on April 10, 2009, 04:34:04 PM
Who has a baby girl?  Wow its amazing how time goes by so fast.  I hope we can hear more wedding bells coming up soon

I would really love to be invited :)

I love you too sister
Title: Re: NET FRIENDSHIP
Post by: shah baloch on January 23, 2010, 01:49:05 PM
i m not totally agree with you......