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Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« on: April 04, 2009, 01:52:46 PM »
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I have recently invited in FB by one of my relative and found some interesting points for discussion.
 
A very interesting question someone raised there and I’ would like to share with you here in general chit chat to know your opinion I hope you would participate in this discussion.

The question was:
“Is this true that Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers?”

If this is true then what do you think what could be the exact reason behind this?

Looking forward to hear your voice

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P.S. I'll come up with my view point but after getting some responses from members.



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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2009, 08:01:53 PM »
 bismillah
me as a balochi girl will say about my self.. im rude with strangers (both baloch & non baloch
)...the reason behind this, so many reasons... 1 of them is my mom. she says dont become free quickly with them  :)():( .... because she knows me very well, i trust them easily.. so being rude with them keeps me away from them.
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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #2 on: April 09, 2009, 04:34:38 PM »
I don't believe this is true when they pick on Baluch girls being rude.  I would say they may be shy and distance themselves from strangers as would be expected from them.  When you use offensive words or attitude, it could be rude.  It also depends on circumstances, what leads one to be rude in the first place?

It depends on ones bringing up too, I know in Europe you can smile and greet a total stranger back without a problem and everyone goes their own way.  Maybe back home if you smile at a person they might think its love at first site :) and try to pursue it further which leads to the said problems ahead ahem.
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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #3 on: April 09, 2009, 08:20:46 PM »
I guess all fives are not equal.Depends on different sociological milieu and other circumstances.Well it is everyone's individual right to whatsoever attitude he or she adopts .But the question which doesn't seem to be a conundrum rather, might be answered verily  .At the very first instance it is owing to the bringing up of a child as desertrose has aforementioned.Secondly she might had encountered problems when she have been polite thus now rude.Thirdly Baloch girl for sure won't be elegant to those she doesn't know which is considered by most of the people as over genteel .Fourthly showing boats do exist everywhere ,not in Baloch girls but in others also ,that is so because of hidden purposes and diverting the focus towards her in disguise .
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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2009, 07:45:44 PM »
That's an interesting query. A "stranger" could be a man as well as a woman. But since here the attitude of a Balochi "girl" is in question, I would assume the stranger to be a man. In that case, attitude of a Baloch girl, whether rude or sweet, would reflect only her personal self (or personality) that got shaped by her family background, social circumstances, cultural links and personal levels of experiences (including level of education).

You might observe a similarity in the attitude of people living in a particular social setup although having different backgrounds/cultures, on the other hand you might also see people of the same community/culture showing different attitudes in different social set-ups (in which they have settled).

So in my view, it's hard to point out the correct attitude (or mindset) of a people/person unless we are talking about a specific environment/social setup.

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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #5 on: April 12, 2009, 02:01:30 AM »
Its all about culture because this is an pattern of humen knowldge that transmitted through generations and thats what our baloch Girls are......

we cant say that they are rude with strangers....

This is our culture that  Al hamdullilah still exist n will exist inshallah forever...

With thick and joint Eyebrows
Having Goshan on her head
Hiding her face because of Shy
That is Woman of my Nation

((((Lion Of Desert))))

These are the reasons behind women of my nation and these blessing makes her diff from others.

(1 of them is my mom. she says dont become free quickly with them)...

Your al hamdulillah a daughter baloch hope u 'll get knowldge by looking what ur parents do..sister

Shoma Padane aak,

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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #6 on: April 12, 2009, 08:58:23 PM »
The question is not  why  Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers?” but it should be why  Baloch girls  be frank to strangers????????????????chona zamana karab ent sanam......................
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Re: Why Baloch girls are rude to Baloch strangers? (Question)
« Reply #7 on: April 12, 2009, 10:37:26 PM »
Here I would agree with Qasum as to why a Balouch Girl should be frank with strangers even if they are Balouch Man... this is not only against balouchi culture but also against Islamic values that a girl should get free with strangers... but again here the question is not so clear as brother Abdullah said if the girl is a house sitting girl then her way of thinking would be different than the one going to a university.. or an educational center.. or to an office... so attitude of all balouch girl need not be the same.